February 8

Gratitude in Parenting: How to Develop a Positive Parent-Child Relationship


Parenting is one of the most rewarding and challenging experiences anyone can go through. As parents, we want to raise our children to be kind, responsible, and happy individuals. However, the journey of parenting can often be overwhelming, causing us to lose sight of the many blessings that come with it. This is where gratitude comes in.

Gratitude is the practice of acknowledging and appreciating the good things in life. In parenting, cultivating a sense of gratitude can help us become more patient, compassionate, and understanding caregivers. Here are some ways that gratitude can enhance our relationships with our children:

1. Focus on the positive:

It’s easy to get caught up in negative thoughts when we’re tired or stressed out. But by focusing on what we’re grateful for, we shift our perspective from what’s going wrong to what’s going right. This helps us stay positive and approach parenting challenges with a growth mindset.

By focusing on what we do have rather than what we lack, Muslims can cultivate a sense of contentment and positivity.

The Quran says,

“And He gave you from all you asked of Him. And if you should count the favour of Allah, you could not enumerate them” (14:34).

2. Model gratitude for your child:

Children learn by example, so when they see us expressing gratitude regularly for small things like a beautiful sunset or a delicious meal, they will start adopting this habit too.

Make it a habit to say “Alhamdulillah” for every big and small favour Allah has bestowed you with, and encourage your children to do the same.

The Quran says,

“If you are grateful, I will surely increase you [in favor]” (14:7).

Teach your child that expressing gratitude leads to more blessings and positivities in our lives.

3. Appreciate your child’s unique qualities:

Every child has their own strengths and weaknesses. By focusing on their positive attributes and expressing appreciation for their unique qualities, we help them develop confidence and self-esteem.

4. Create meaningful rituals:

Incorporating gratitude into daily routines like bedtime stories or family dinners can help reinforce this habit as a regular part of family life.

5. Practice forgiveness:

Gratitude also involves forgiving ourselves and others for mistakes made along the way. This helps create a culture of empathy and compassion within our families. In Islam, both forgiveness and gratitude are considered acts of worship that bring us closer to Allah. By forgiving others, we emulate His mercy and compassion towards His creation. By expressing gratitude, we acknowledge His infinite blessings upon us.

Cultivating gratitude in parenting helps us appreciate the joys of raising children while navigating its challenges with positivity and grace. By modelling this practice for our children and creating meaningful rituals around it, we foster an environment of love and support within our families that will last a lifetime.


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